Friends today i am writing a blog on love as this is to most common and prevailing phenomena across the world without boundaries...this is the feeling on which poetry songs and films and literature moves.......today i was thinking why it is so that this world is so suspiciously reacts when we talk about it and what is the true definition of LOVE.... people can write n number of quotes on this poets can write thousands of poems every generation grow with this feeling and this word "love" never looses its charm in any generation...when i was too small i got attracted to my teacher but later on i came to know the deference between love and infatuation..then i attracted to wards some girl i thought it is love then after some time i came to know it was opposite sex attraction and then when again i saw a girl then i asked my self do i live here my heart told me don't go in to technicalities if you like her just tell her and after telling here and waiting for her reply then i came to know what is love???
i know may be refuse my proposal may be accept it....but in this process i went through a mantel
and emotional transformation today i know real love is so very fragile and pure that you dont accpect any thing from here not even here consent if here consent come naturally you feel happy if not then you feel drained out a vacuum inside you but you dont say anything to here
and that vacuum helps you to understand the depth of your feeling..it gives you a chance to introspect you that why you are looking for somebody why it is that we need a smile of your sweetheart to make your day??
answer is we as a human after taking birth after mother we dont feel that security and tenderness anywhere and after growing that child inside us keep searching a person who can
fill the gap between a child and a man .... a person who can give that feel of a mother as well as well partner which can give a feel of manhood too...... and love can survive only with a child like heart where emotions comes right from the heart they are not manipulated they are very pure like mother and child relation and naughty like krishna and raadha....
raadha is not worshiped as wife of krishna but worshiped due to selfless love when radha and krishna were together they dont need to spell that relation just looking at them one can understand that yes they are in a special stage of emotions... and we Indians gave respect and acceptance of this kind of relation without any question now if some body say that prove that you love me then i burst in to laughing coz if you can not feel it then there is no need to prove it
may be you are having some kind of mutual relationship but it is not love....
love needs no words....if you are with me and you feel complete then yes we are in love...
if being with you gives me happiness without any reason then we are in love.
when even silence sounds like tender music in my ears then we are in love...
if without you i feel lonely and empty from within then its love......
if you understand me like a mother understand here child then its love..
when i can sleep even at battlefield just by holding your arm then its nothing but love..
when my biggest fear is not my death but fear of loosing you then its love......
this is love and it should be like this for me...other wise it will be a mutual relationship nothing more then that............... lets hope that i will find my love on day.............
About Me
- mayank sachan
- NOIDA, U.P, India
- इस सदन में मैं अकेला ही दिया हूं; मत बुझाओ ! जब मिलेगी, रोशनी मुझसे मिलेगी !! पांव तो मेरे थकन ने छील डाले अब विचारों के सहारे चल रहा हूं आंसूओं से जन्म दे-देकर हंसी को एक मंदिर के दिये-सा जल रहा हूं; मैं जहां धर दूं कदम वह राजपथ है; मत मिटाओ पांव मेरे देखकर दुनिया चलेगी !! बेबसी मेरे अधर इतने न खोलो जो कि अपना मोल बतलाता फिरूं मैं इस कदर नफ़रत न बरसाओ नयन से प्यार को हर गांव दफनाता फिरूं मैं एक अंगारा गरम मैं ही बचा हूं । मत बुझाओ । जब जलेगी, आरती मुझसे जलेगी !! जी रहो हो किस कला का नाम लेकर कुछ पता भी है कि वह कैसे बची है, सभ्यता की जिस अटारी पर खड़े हो वह हमीं बदनाम लोगों ने रची है; मैं बहारों का अकेला वंशधर हूं, मत सुखाऒ ! मैं खिलूंगा, तब नई बगिया खिलेगी !! शाम ने सबके मुखों पर आग मल दी मैं जला हूं, तो सुबह लाकर बुझूंगा ज़िंदगी सारी गुनाहों में बिताकर जब मरूंगा देवता बनकर पूजूंगा; आंसूओं को देखकर मेरी हंसी तुम मत उड़ाओ ! मैं न रोऊं, तो शिला कैसे गलेगी !!
6 comments:
Great thoughts about Love.
It seems as you have a close relationship with love.
Some one said "Dont marry to some one only because you can live with that person.
Marry some one with out which you cannot live."
And this is love.
"LOVE"-Really interesting,but what you people have argued upon is just one form of it and the fore said phenomenon is mostly found between two opposite charges of human species and nowadays it is believed to be the foundation of sacred institution called marriage(though in reality it has nothing to do with this you can look at the generation behind)but in that case what is being observed is that only love appears to be sacred and what status the marriage has everyone knows(not in every case but in most of the cases)or where the essence of love sublimes after marriage? "love is said to be blind and the marriage is a real eye opener"...but if you question this to any bird of the unmarried 'couple'they would simply deny the feeling of infatuation and will spell it l.o.v.e...love has nothing to do with the age,any teenager could fall in love to cater his emotional needs and any so called matured person could be in love to cater physical need...forms are different but both the cases are reportedly of love.
Example of Radha Kishan is that of devinity and has nothing to do with humans.................
In actual its a spark that keeps on tickling everytime when the two persons look at each other irrespective of any situation/condition.
"Ek ehsaas hai yeh,isey rooh se mehsoos karo,pyaar ko pyaar hi rehnae do koi naam na do"
yaar "love is blind" ye theory is given by western people.. love is divine in its nature...radha was a ordinery girl she achieved that divinity through selfless love..
meera was known for her selfless devotion to krishna..krishna was not there at all but she fell in love with krishna why????
if you love somebody you will try your level best to keep her happy without any expectation.. it has nothing to do with physical demand or anything and true marriage is a transformation of love in to a commitment its not a bondage....
just feel the lines...
तू मेरी जाँ हैरत-ओ-हसरत से न देख
हम में कोई भी जहाँ नूर-ओ-जहाँगीर नहीं
तू मुझे छोड़ के ठुकरा के भी जा सकती है
तेरे हाथों में मेरा साथ है ज़ंजीर नहीं
this is true love when you assure some body that my love is not a restriction for your self but a extension of your existence......you say its between opposite charge yes true but have you ever thought why opposite attracts..Becouse without each other they are incomplete...nature program our mind to search for your incompleteness, the other half of your personality. and in this world every person has his better half. but some can find it other just live.....
and and if your love is true and fearless then why can not give a name... ye koi naam na dene wali theory men mujhe kuch gabad lagti hai.. matlab
"gud khao aur gulgule se parhez"
agar pyar sach hai to usko naam jaroor milna chahiye..ek pahchaan milni chahiye...nahin wo khalish hamaari jindgi men kabhi nahi poori hoti...
What I commented upon was relating love with marriage,I have noted that from the very begining you are much focussed upon 'Radha -Krishna',but they are known for their chemistry of love but not for being husband and wife.Marriage altogether is a different issue and the love which exists in that relation is because of different reasons.It's a proven fact that when two or persons are together and they respect each others feeling and share good companionship then automatically invisible strings of some feel are developed and people often call it LOVE,it's also one form of it....what I mean to say is that for getting married one need not to fall in love because if one is sensible enough it will automatically be cultivated as life flows and it's really tough to judge whether the other person loves you or not and this is because most of the marriages are getting ruined as picture before marriage and after marriage is totally different...one thing more people are found saying that marriage is about compromises ...but my opinion is again different,its not 'bout so but its about being concerened with ones duties(farz)....so dont mess love with marriage.
I have heard that love is undemanding so why people are bothered about girl's/boy's reaction towards them after proposing?that can't be a true definition of love,did anyone bothered to see the feelings of their parents,siblings?they too love...but since no physical bond is required that's why we are least bothered....i have seen people feeling pity among their family members,what's this all about?simply mocking their love feelings but bothered about the girl,whom they have known for few days...
LETS DISCUSS LOVE WITH LOVE....
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TADPA jati hain aksar unki, yeh jhukti hui aankhen,
jab uthti hain yeh aankhen, to yahi dua ban jati hain……
yeh unki di hui TADAP-AE-ISHQ hai, ya unki hai dua,
jo raaton ko jagne ki vazah ban jaati hai……………………!
unki is chahat me, TADAP-TADAP ke jee rahe hain,
ya unhi ki dua ke asar se, aaj saanse le rahe hain………..
yahi sochte-sochte bas, raat se subah ho jaati hai,
jo raaton ko jagne ki vazah ban jaati hai……………………!
ek to unka haseen chehra, us par kaali zulfon ke pehra,
wo palkon ki chilman aur aankhon ka kaajal gehra………
ek nazar bhar jo dekh le, to kayamat ho jaati hai,
jo raaton ko jagne ki vazah ban jaati hai……………………!
wo sharm-o-naadani se unka, apni nazren churaana,
wo aanchal ko daaton me daba kar yun muskuraana……
yahi andaaz-o-ada to unki, tadapne pe majboor kar jati hai,
jo raaton ko jagne ki vazah ban jaati hai……………………!
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