One of my friend said that i have to write a blog on friendship..
in my point of view friends are the only word which show that there is something extra in human then animals because we care about the people whom we love and except family i am not talking about family because every sane human being do care about there family naturally because they grow with them but the world "friend" comes by instinct and very naturally and it dose not happens with everybody you can see how many people have real friends for life time...the people who have friends for life time just ask them what make them a good friends and they can not give any single answer because you don't need a reason or you can not make true friends with purpose..true friends comes naturally to you, like a gift of GOD...you don't expect any thing in return and just being with a friend gives you a nice feel they understand you, listen you, accept you as you are, they give very honest feed back about yourself without any fear and you know they will be there where no body not even your family support you.
some people confuse this friendship word with mutual consent or we can say some people think
that if i scratch your back and you scratch mine then we are friends then these poor people do not know the real essence of friendship.... because there is know way of continuously scratching each others back and when somebody stop due to some reason then there friendship comes to an end...and in delhi it happens often....
in my opinion friendship is one step ahead then love because love has some conditions some boundaries love need loyalty to one but friend give you ample space to live they don't try to change you when you are happy you can calibrate with your family your friend don't even bothered but when you are said you go to him and he is the only one who can give you the solutions, advices, everything that can make you happy....and he is the only person who's life is not dependent on you but who care about your feeling who respect your existence..not your deeds in my point of view the saying "a friend in need is a friend indeed" is wrong it should be like
"you wont need anything if you have a true friend"
Do you have have a true friend??????????
About Me
- mayank sachan
- NOIDA, U.P, India
- इस सदन में मैं अकेला ही दिया हूं; मत बुझाओ ! जब मिलेगी, रोशनी मुझसे मिलेगी !! पांव तो मेरे थकन ने छील डाले अब विचारों के सहारे चल रहा हूं आंसूओं से जन्म दे-देकर हंसी को एक मंदिर के दिये-सा जल रहा हूं; मैं जहां धर दूं कदम वह राजपथ है; मत मिटाओ पांव मेरे देखकर दुनिया चलेगी !! बेबसी मेरे अधर इतने न खोलो जो कि अपना मोल बतलाता फिरूं मैं इस कदर नफ़रत न बरसाओ नयन से प्यार को हर गांव दफनाता फिरूं मैं एक अंगारा गरम मैं ही बचा हूं । मत बुझाओ । जब जलेगी, आरती मुझसे जलेगी !! जी रहो हो किस कला का नाम लेकर कुछ पता भी है कि वह कैसे बची है, सभ्यता की जिस अटारी पर खड़े हो वह हमीं बदनाम लोगों ने रची है; मैं बहारों का अकेला वंशधर हूं, मत सुखाऒ ! मैं खिलूंगा, तब नई बगिया खिलेगी !! शाम ने सबके मुखों पर आग मल दी मैं जला हूं, तो सुबह लाकर बुझूंगा ज़िंदगी सारी गुनाहों में बिताकर जब मरूंगा देवता बनकर पूजूंगा; आंसूओं को देखकर मेरी हंसी तुम मत उड़ाओ ! मैं न रोऊं, तो शिला कैसे गलेगी !!
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